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Monday, October 31, 2011

Stealing Jenny - A Book Review

I usually prefer to read nonfiction, but from time to time I enjoy a good suspense. Stealing Jenny, Ellen Gable’s latest novel, not only provided great suspense, but I literally could not put it down. It had me on the edge of my seat right up until the last page.
Jenny is almost ready to deliver her sixth child and has been kidnapped by a woman who desperately wants to have a baby. What the kidnapper does not know is that Jenny has had complications with this pregnancy and needs a C-Section to deliver the baby safely. If Jenny goes into labor before being rescued, she and her baby could die.
Besides the suspense, this is also an inspiring story about a Catholic family, trying their best to lead lives of faith. They are ordinary human beings with their own share of struggles, but they rely on each other and prayer and God to get through it all.
I highly recommend this book.

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Sunday, October 30, 2011

Called to Serve

The greatest among you must be your servant. – Matthew 23:11
There is something truly awesome about being called to serve the God we love. There is a feeling of joy and peace that “surpasses all understanding.” (Phil 4:7)
We don’t get to that place by ourselves. We are called. We need to recognize the call. We need to try to do God’s will.
But being a servant of God is not about servitude. It is about love. Love of God and neighbor. And grace. God’s grace.
And I have often found that the ways for us to serve God are given to us, almost without us knowing it. All we have to do is say yes.
My husband is a permanent deacon. Deacons are ordained to service. God calls them to be servants long before they even hear the call to the diaconate. 
I always knew my husband was someone who felt called to serve others. I knew it long before I knew what the diaconate was.
Early in my husband’s formation, our Bishop celebrated a Mass for the deacon candidates and their wives. It was during this Mass that I heard the song, “The Servant Song” for the first time. 
As I sang the words, I started tearing up and looked over at my husband whose eyes held a few tears as well. I knew then that, no matter what, my husband and I were on a special journey.
And I knew that we were where we were supposed to be. He was called to be a deacon and I was called to serve as well, by walking the journey with him.
By God’s grace.
Dear Lord, I long to serve you and to serve those you love. Help me to answer your call. Help me to hold the Christ light for others, to be a companion on the journey. And thank you, Lord, for sending people to serve me in my times of need. Amen.

And here is a version of “The Servant’s Song” for you to hear. Lyrics included! (Hint - play in full screen mode - so beautiful!)




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Saturday, October 29, 2011

Sunday Snippets - October 30

This is the weekly Catholic Carnival! Be sure to visit RAnn at This, That and the Other Thing and check out some posts from other bloggers participating in Sunday Snippets this week. Why not join us and share a blog post or two from last week?

Sabbath Moments - Sick and Tired

Sabbath moments are a way of taking time to rest in God, to enjoy God in silence or in nature. The word sabbath comes from a Hebrew word meaning "cease." And that is what we need to do sometimes, cease our activity and live in the moment and breathe in God.
I invite you to share your Sabbath moment(s) here on Saturdays. Be sure to sign into Mr. Linky below.
I have been sick for most of this week. My husband and I both caught a bad cold and we have been camped out in our living room, sitting in our favorite chairs, watching television, sleeping, coughing and blowing our noses and going through throat lozenges like crazy.
I have not felt like writing or reading. The only praying I have been able to do is to say "Help, me Lord!"
Being sick is no fun but it does slow us down and we get our rest whether we like it or not. I don't think God makes us sick, but I believe He reminds us through our times of illness that paying attention to our health and taking care of our bodies and getting plenty of rest is important.

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Friday, October 28, 2011

Stylish Blogger Award

I want to thank Mary, at The Beautiful Gate, and Ellen, at Plot Line and Sinker, for giving me this award!
One of the rules is to share 7 things about yourself and then pass the award along to 5 other bloggers. As usual, I break the rules a little and invite anyone who visits my blog to join in!
Here are seven things about me that you might not know:

1. I am undeniably an introvert. I love spending time in solitude and I do not do small talk very well. Social situations and crowds stress me out.
2. I am scared to death of mice. I am not sure why.
3. I used to be an RN. I quit my nursing job to work with my husband in his print shop and to be home more with my children. Those years were among the best of my life.
4. I was involved with the drama club in high school and later my hubby and I were involved with community theater. We then had two boys and I converted to the Catholic Church. We had to reprioritize our lives and we had no time for theater any more. I have no regrets about that but I have happy memories.
5. I quit smoking 14 years ago.
6. I had a great-grandfather who lived to be about 102 years old. I was able to get a 5-generation picture taken  - my great-grandfather, my grandmother, my father, me and my son.
7. I don't like costume parties. I loved it as a child but since becoming an adult, I do not like Halloween or any kind of costume party. I am not sure why. Maybe it is because I don't like drawing attention to myself.
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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Thankful for Blessings-Blessed by Sons

My blogging friend, Judy, has an inspiring blog, A Thankful Woman's Book of Blessings. Join her every Wednesday in giving thanks for the many blessings we receive from God. Write a list of 5 blessings and then link to Judy's blog. Thanks, Judy, for helping me keep an "attitude of gratitude!" :)
1. I am thankful that my oldest son has been given a promotion in his company. It is a wonderful opportunity for him and he is very excited. However, it means that he and his family will be moving 9-10 hours away from us (and taking my grandbaby with him!) We just need to adjust to this and arrange our vacations and long weekends accordingly. I am proud of him and happy for him. (and I have to admit, sad for me) 
2. I am thankful that my youngest son recently moved closer to us after living so far away from us for 3 years. What a God-incidence this is! God knew I would be sad to have BOTH of my sons so far away. Thank you, Lord! 
3. I am thankful for my husband, who took the news of our son moving away the same way I did, and is such a wonderful father. He has 4 children from a previous marriage and we have 2 sons. We have 16 grandchildren. Family get-togethers are always interesting, especially during the holidays. 
4. I am thankful for the cooler weather we had for a day or two. It got hot and humid again rather quickly. Florida. Go figure. 
5. I am thankful that I am Catholic, for many, many reasons. I was able to go to daily Mass yesterday and that is such a blessing. It is a great way to start my day and I carry that peace with me all day long. God is good!
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Sunday, October 23, 2011

First Things First

"You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the first commandment.” Matthew 22:37-38
Putting God first has been very much on my mind lately. I recently went on retreat and found that I was not putting him first. I was complaining about being too busy and not having enough time to pray, but I realized that I found time to do other things. And should God not be at the top of the list?
If I can find time to watch a television show, then I can find time to pray.
If I can find time to read a chapter in the book I am reading, then I can find time to pray.
If I can find time to go to the coffee shop to get my favorite iced coffee, then I can find time to pray.
There is nothing wrong with doing any of these things, but I found time to do them.
So I can find time to pray.
During my retreat, my daily “mantra” became first things first and it continues to be a daily reminder that God needs to be first in my life.
That doesn’t mean that I always succeed, but I am doing much better than I was doing.
Putting someone first in our lives lets them know where they belong in our heart, and our soul and our mind.
Dear Lord, I love you with all my heart, and my soul and my mind. I am sorry for the times I have not put you first and I am trying to do better. Help me, Lord, to remember that you come first before all things. Amen.
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Saturday, October 22, 2011

Sunday Snippets - October 23

This is the weekly Catholic Carnival! Be sure to visit RAnn at This, That and the Other Thing and check out some posts from other bloggers participating in Sunday Snippets this week. Why not join us and share a blog post or two from last week?
Here are my contributions for this week:
1. Who Comes First?
2. Thankful for Blessings - God is So Good!
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Sabbath Moments - Wind Chimes and Chant

Sabbath moments are a way of taking time to rest in God, to enjoy God in silence or in nature. The word sabbath comes from a Hebrew word meaning "cease." And that is what we need to do sometimes, cease our activity and live in the moment and breathe in God.
I invite you to share your Sabbath moment(s) here on Saturdays. Be sure to sign into Mr. Linky below.
1. We are having cool weather for the first time in months. We turned off our air conditioner and opened up the house. What a pleasant evening: a cool breeze, fresh air and the sound of musical wind chimes outside our window.
2. Prayed the Rosary of the Hours many times over the weekend for my husband who was on a Cursillo weekend. A different and beautiful way to pray the rosary, causing me to stop many times during the day, and meditate on one mystery for a while. This was my special intention that I mentioned last week. Thank you to all who prayed with me!
3. Watching the rain fall. So peaceful and a time to just "be."
4. Taking time first thing everyday to pray a Morning Offering. A great way to start the day.
5. Listening to Gregorian chant always helps me to stop and focus on the Lord.
What were some of your sabbath moments?
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Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Thankful for Blessings- God is So Good!

My blogging friend, Judy, has an inspiring blog, A Thankful Woman's Book of Blessings. Join her every Wednesday in giving thanks for the many blessings we receive from God. Write a list of 5 blessings and then link to Judy's blog. Thanks, Judy, for helping me keep an "attitude of gratitude!" :)
I am thankful for: 
1. We have had so much rain this week. More rain than I can remember in a long time. However, I made it safely home from work, driving through flooded streets and low visibility. And there is something comforting about sitting in my chair at home, listening to the rain falling outside my window. Very cozy.
2. The blogging world. My blogging friends. Some new friends I have "met" recently. Sharing our faith. Supporting each other. And giving thanks!
3. I had some quiet time to pray last weekend. Time to pray and read and write. A peaceful time to treasure.
4. There are a lot of devotionals to choose from these days, including some for the Nook and Kindle and cell phone apps. It really helps our prayer lives to have these books and other sources of prayer and reflection available to us in so many convenient ways. And I am enjoying them!
5. I am so grateful for my husband's diaconate vocation and his various ministries. Deacons are called to service and he serves in many ways. Last weekend he "worked" on a Cursillo weekend. He so enjoys it and blesses others with his presence and talks and ministry.
God is so good. How has He blessed your lives this week?
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Sunday, October 16, 2011

Who Comes First?

At that (Jesus) said to them, "Then repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to God." Matthew 22:21
I think it comes down to choice.
Who and what do we choose to do? And how do our choices reflect on our lives as Christians?
Who comes first? Caesar or God?
Who comes first in our hearts?
When it comes to abortion, I choose God. Not Caesar.
When it comes to euthanasia, I choose God. Not Caesar.
When it comes to conscience rights, I choose God. Not Caesar.
When it comes to the death penalty, I choose God, not Caesar.
Of course it is easy to talk about here. Sometimes the choice is not so easy. People have lost their jobs for their faith. People have been ridiculed and insulted for their faith.
People have died for their faith.
What do we think we owe God?
Our lives?
I think our answers tell us where our heart lives.
Dear Lord, thank you for the gift of life. Thank you for the freedom you have given me to choose to love you. Help me make the right choices. Help me to choose for you, even when it seems too difficult. Even when I feel afraid. Amen.
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Saturday, October 15, 2011

Sunday Snippets - October 16

This is the weekly Catholic Carnival! Be sure to visit RAnn at This, That and the Other Thing and check out some posts from other bloggers participating in Sunday Snippets this week. Why not join us and share a blog post or two from last week?

Sabbath Moments - Pilgrims, Retreats & Rosaries

Sabbath moments are a way of taking time to rest in God, to enjoy God in silence or in nature. The word sabbath comes from a Hebrew word meaning "cease." And that is what we need to do sometimes, cease our activity and live in the moment and breathe in God.
I invite you to share your Sabbath moment(s) here on Saturdays. Be sure to sign into Mr. Linky below.
1. Had some alone time this weekend. Spent Friday praying and writing and praying some more. Re-reading a book by Joyce Rupp about her pilgrimage to the Camino de Santiago in Spain, called Walk in a Relaxed Manner. I am enjoying it even more the second time. I would like to see the movie Martin Sheen made about the pilgrimage - called The Way.
2. Taking some time everyday to read and reflect on the Retreat in the Real World - the book version of the online retreat.This is a case where I do better with the book rather than the free online version. I can carry this book around with me and reflect on passages. It is quiet different from other at-home retreat books but I enjoy it. Considering I am working on some retreat books and materials of my own that I will publish in some form, it is interesting to see others' viewpoints and ways of doing things.
3. A rainbow. Out of nowhere. It was not raining. Yet. I love God's surprises, don't you?
4. Praying the rosary throughout the weekend, too, for a special intention. Would you mind taking a sabbath moment to say a little prayer for my intention? Thank you and God bless!
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Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Thankful for Blessings- Life and Love

My blogging friend, Judy, has an inspiring blog, A Thankful Woman's Book of Blessings. Join her every Wednesday in giving thanks for the many blessings we receive from God. Write a list of 5 blessings and then link to Judy's blog. Thanks, Judy, for helping me keep an "attitude of gratitude!" :)
I am thankful for:
1. For Life, thank you, Lord. Help me to remember what a gift Life is and to model for others a respect for all life.
2. For my family and friends, thank you, Lord. I love them. Help me to never take them for granted.
3. For the gift of faith, thank you, Lord. Help me to grow in that faith and to grow in trust of you.
4. For the Eucharist, thank you, Lord. What a blessing and gift You have given to us. I love and adore You.
5. For your mother, thank you, Lord. Help me to love Mary more and more everyday.
What blessings would you like to share?
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Sunday, October 9, 2011

Invitations to the Feast

He dispatched his servants to summon the invited guests to the feast, but they refused to come. (Matthew 22:3)
I feel sad when I read this. I feel sad to think that some people refuse God's invitation. They don't hear it or they hear it but they are not interested.
I feel sad to think of what some people are missing. I feel sad to think that Jesus is sad. He wants to save us all.
I myself didn't go to the feast for a long time. I either said No to the invitation or ignored it. Now I know what I was missing. How lost I was. How hurt I was. How alone I felt.
As St. Augustine said - Our hearts are restless until they rest in God.
So I do my best to summon others. I do my best to "invite whomever that (I) find." (Mt 22:9)
Lord, I hope and pray that all will hear your call and will attend the wedding feast. Help me to evangelize others and bring them home to You. Amen.
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Saturday, October 8, 2011

Sunday Snippets - October 9

This is the weekly Catholic Carnival! Be sure to visit RAnn at This, That and the Other Thing and check out some posts from other bloggers participating in Sunday Snippets this week. Why not join us and share a blog post or two from last week?
Here are my contributions for this week:
1. God Never Gives Us On Us
2. 10 Ways to Pray Without Ceasing
3. A Few Views of a Retreat
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Sabbath Moments - Standing Still

Sabbath moments are a way of taking time to rest in God, to enjoy God in silence or in nature. The word sabbath comes from a Hebrew word meaning "cease." And that is what we need to do sometimes, cease our activity and live in the moment and breathe in God.
I invite you to share your Sabbath moment(s) here on Saturdays. Be sure to sign into Mr. Linky below.
1. One day I walked out of the parish office and almost ran into a rabbit! A medium -sized brown rabbit. It froze because it was scared and I froze because I didn't want it to run away. So we stared at each other for a moment. Then I slowly walked toward my car, watching the rabbit all the time, and it finally went scurrying into the bushes. It was a nice surprise!
2. Saw a heron near our pond on the way home and it looked so regal standing there. They always stand so still, they sometimes look like statues.

3. Made it to morning Mass one morning before work and went into the chapel to pray before the Blessed Sacrament. What a wonderful way to start the day. Such a blessing.
4. Read a portion of the Rule of St. Benedict daily and then some reflections on it. He wrote a lot about humility and prayer. He was very wise about how to live in community.
What were some of your sabbath moments?
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Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Thankful for Blessings- This and That

My blogging friend, Judy, has an inspiring blog, A Thankful Woman's Book of Blessings. Join her every Wednesday in giving thanks for the many blessings we receive from God. Write a list of 5 blessings and then link to Judy's blog. Thanks, Judy, for helping me keep an "attitude of gratitude!" :)
Some of my blessings this week:
1. I have been immersed in quotes lately from various saints and mystics and famous Catholics. I just love their inspiring ways with words, touching hearts and helping us to "see" and "know" Jesus more clearly. Thank you, Lord.
2. My mother celebrated her birthday last week. I am thankful for her and for our relationship. She also celebrated her anniversary as a deaconess in her church. And she is the organist for her church, like her mother before her. I am so proud of her. Thank you, Lord.
3. My husband, who continues to spoil me every day, including making me brownies last week. I do not need the sweets but I love my "sweet" husband! Thank you, Lord.
4. My two sons - they have grown closer as they have grown older and it does a mother's heart good. It is an answer to my prayers. Thank you, Lord.
5. Cooler weather this week in Florida. Nice to have a cool breeze in the morning. This time of year we fluctuate between air conditioning and open windows. Always fun trying to figure out how each day is going to turn out. Thank you, Lord.
What are some of your blessings this week?
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Tuesday, October 4, 2011

A Few Views of a Retreat









All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen. – Ralph Waldo Emerson


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Monday, October 3, 2011

10 Ways to Pray Without Ceasing

After a long spell of prayer, do not say that nothing has been gained, for you have already achieved something. For, after all, what higher good is there than to cling to the Lord and to persevere in unceasing union with Him? (St. John Climacus, The Ladder of Divine Ascent)

Pray without ceasing. (1 Thessalonians 5:17)
To pray without ceasing seems almost impossible to do. However, there are ways to pray sporadically throughout the day and come close to praying without ceasing.
The problem is remembering. Our daily schedules can be so difficult and crazy that we cannot find the time, much less remember.
It should be easy for me. I work at a church office, for heaven’s sake. I think of God and God-related matters all day. However, doing office work does not always constitute thinking of God.
For example, when I am working on such things as the bulletin, my mind is thinking of type fonts and graphic images and downloads, etc. 
Of course, I try to offer it up – all of my work. But that is not the same as praying unceasingly.
So I have come up with some ideas on how to pray unceasingly – or as often as possible. (This is not a complete list nor is it in any kind of order. Also, a period of silent prayer is important sometime during the day.)

1. Saying the Jesus Prayer over and over - Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy upon me, a sinner.
I first started praying this prayer years ago on the advice of my spiritual director who suggested that it would help me with my depression. He told me to pray it every chance I got. He also told me to shorten it. He said I was already depressed and did not need reminding I was a sinner! So I would pray – Jesus, have mercy.
So I prayed it for months. It got to the point where, no matter where I was or what I was doing, I would start praying it immediately. I needed no reminders at that point. It is a beautiful way to stay in touch with Jesus all day. (and yes, it helped my depression)
By the way, The Way of the Pilgrim, tells the story of a pilgrim who prays this prayer all day everyday after hearing St. Paul's words about praying without ceasing.

2. Alarm on iphone (or similar device that you use) – with a one line prayer that pops up! I have mine set for three times during my work day. When it rings, I usually just breathe in the name of Jesus. At least for that one moment, I am focused on Him.

3. Write a prayer or favorite bible passage on a piece of ppaer, laminate it and use it as a bookmark. Put the bookmark in the book you are reading right now. Or just have it on the table to remind you.

4. Put a sticky note on your bathroom mirror (or your desk at work or wherever) – with a brief prayer or just a reminder to pray.

5. Play a Christian music cd in your car. And be sure to sing along!!

6. Keep a Rosary ring with you. I have one in my car and it is a great reminder to pray the rosary and easier to use. My commute to work and church is 35 -40 minutes so I have time to pray 5 decades of the rosary. Or pray 1 decade at a time on a shorter drive.

7. Liturgy of the Hours – Morning, Evening and Night prayer (Compline).  Pray by yourself or with a group.

8. Morning offering – thank God for the new day and be sure to offer it up to Him. Any prayer will do. Here is a children’s version –
Good morning, dear Jesus, this day is for you. I offer you all that I think, say, and do. Amen.

9. Examen – at the end of the day, look over your day to where you saw God. This is an Ignatian prayer that I seem to be drawn to lately.

10. Journal – write about your life with God. Write Him a love letter. Write a prayer. Write 5 things you are most thankful for that day.

What are some of your ideas to add to the list?

By the way, when I was first thinking about writing this post, I found a similar one by one of my blogging friends, Jean, at Healthy Spirituality blog. I told her I was not copying her post although we have some similar thoughts on the subject. And similar examples, too! Go figure. We are both spiritual directors. Please be sure to visit her blog and see what she has posted about this!
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Sunday, October 2, 2011

God Never Gives Up On Us

"The stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone; by the Lord has this been done, and it is wonderful in our eyes." (Matthew 21:42)
I often talk about our God of Second Chances. I love how God never gives up on me. Even when I turn a deaf ear. Even when I turn away from those he sends me. Even when I say, "No, Lord."
Sometimes I forget that I do not bear fruit alone. That I can only say yes and then let God work through me. 
Sometimes I forget that God loves me so much that he never gives up on me. 
I wonder how many times I have turned away from Jesus when He came to me. How many times have I ignored the prophets God has sent to me? How many times have I refused to do His will?
The Good News is that the stone I have rejected is still the cornerstone of my life. The Good News is that God loves me so much that He comes to me over and over and offers me His compassion and mercy. He offers me His Son.
Jesus, you are the Lord of my life. Help me to always trust in your love and your forgiveness. Please use me to bear fruit in this world and to bring others to your vineyard. Help me to put you first in my life, everyday. Thank you for never giving up on me. Amen.
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Saturday, October 1, 2011

Sunday Snippets - October 2

This is the weekly Catholic Carnival! Be sure to visit RAnn at This, That and the Other Thing and check out some posts from other bloggers participating in Sunday Snippets this week. Why not join us and share a blog post or two from last week?
Here are my contributions for this week:
1. God Changes Minds and Hearts
2. Sabbath Moments - Retreat Week
3. Father and Son
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Sabbath Moments - Priorities

Sabbath moments are a way of taking time to rest in God, to enjoy God in silence or in nature. The word sabbath comes from a Hebrew word meaning "cease." And that is what we need to do sometimes, cease our activity and live in the moment and breathe in God.
I invite you to share your Sabbath moment(s) here on Saturdays. Be sure to sign into Mr. Linky below.
My Sabbath moments all involve my prayer life this week. My retreat last week helped me to see that I need to put God first on my list rather than somewhere in the middle. I knew that, of course, but sometimes I get so caught up in my life of work and writing projects, etc., that I lose sight of my priorities. And the Lord let me know that during my retreat!
So I have spent more time this week in silent prayer. More time before the Blessed Sacrament. I even made it to morning Mass one day. What a joy!
It has been difficult for me to make it to weekday Masses because of work and distance from home, etc. But I made some adjustments so I can go once or twice during the week.
Going to Mass before going to work makes such a difference in my day ... in my attitude ... in my prayer life. What a joy!
St Benedict said we need to have balance in our lives - prayer, work and rest - prayer being the most important. He also wrote in his Rule that the disciple should "prefer nothing to the love of Christ."
Amen.
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